As a dad, I learned early on to give my boys Christmas and birthday presents that I really wanted. Kids get bored with things pretty quickly, so why not give them something that would entertain me as well? I will confess that there were many times when their name might be on the gift box, but the agenda was more about me. You can call it a bait and switch, call it deceptive, or maybe just call me a bad father. Whatever you call it, though, let’s admit that we all have our moments when we say it’s about someone else, when in reality, it’s about us.
I saw the story this week about the lawsuit filed over a policeman witnessing to someone he pulled over for a traffic violation. Apparently, with lights flashing, he asked about her faith, handed her religious materials, and explained her need to acknowledge that she was a sinner. Many have risen to the police officer’s defense, citing this as another example of religious intolerance and the restriction of our rights. It may well be that very thing, but the incident has pushed me to wrestle with a deeper question. What does our reaction to situations like this say about our motivation?
Responses to these kinds of stories tend to be focused primarily on the issue of our rights and freedoms. Without devaluing the importance of upholding the rights and freedoms of all, can we ask an honest but uncomfortable question?
What is it we are truly concerned about – witnessing or our right to witness?
The two are distinctly different. The first is focused on the Kingdom and others; the second is a matter of self-concern. I cannot help but wonder if our reaction to these incidents is rooted more in fear and self-preservation than it is concern for sharing the Gospel. Stories like this stir the fear that our rights are being taken away and, perhaps, days of increased persecution are coming. You can argue that is the case and you may very well be right. But if that is our greatest worry, then don’t we have to admit that what drives us is our own welfare and not the mission itself?
Much has been said about us now living in post-Christian culture. Such talk makes us uncomfortable. It creates uncertainty and it generates fear. From that flows the reactions of self-defense, the desire to protect ourselves, our place in the public square, and the privileges we have known. Such reactions can become a powerful force, and perhaps without realizing it, our priority soon becomes more about us than it does the mission of Jesus. But I think we need to step back a moment and ask ourselves this question: When did Jesus ever tell His followers to react in fear, fight for their own rights, and seek to protect themselves from persecution?
He calls us to lay down our lives for others and His kingdom. We are compelled by love to fight for the rights of others who cannot speak for themselves. We are challenged to live as the embodiment of Jesus, revealing His love, grace, and hope to a world in need. At no point, however, did He call us to act out of fear and self-concern. On the contrary, we are to live as light in the darkness, fully understanding that doing so will bring conflict and persecution. In the way of Jesus, our response to the conflict is not one of fighting for ourselves and our own protection. Instead, we turn the other cheek, we bless those who curse us, we pray for those who persecute us.
Jesus overcame the powers of evil not by fighting for His rights, but by laying them down and taking up the cross. Those who follow Him are called to overcome in the same way. We do not fight for our own rights, comforts, or protection; we pick up the cross and follow. The kingdom is not built by the rights and liberties granted by any earthly government; it is built by the sacrificial love revealed in the cross of Jesus. Could it be that we have come to believe and trust more in the power of rights and privileges than we have the way of the cross?
Understand that I am not passing judgment on anyone else or questioning their motives. I simply ask the question because I believe it is worthy of our thought, consideration, and prayer. Given my own ability to put someone else’s name on the gift box when it’s really more about me, I need to honestly wrestle with the questions of my true agenda and concerns. Perhaps there are times when the fight becomes more about fear and self-protection than it is the mission of Jesus.